Furries' Guide To BDSM
I would say that I'm more tolerant than the average guy but there are some things that I just don't get. It's the things that I understand the least that tend to fascinate me the most. Furries have always been pretty high up on this list but I found a PDF document today (don't ask how) that's set a new benchmark.
"Advice for Furries new to BDSM Events" outlines the etiquette of attending a Furry BDSM party thing - they're called...
...wait for it...
...Dog & Pony Shows! <~~FREAKIN' AWESOME!!
Below is the entire document for your reading pleasure...
Advice for Furries new to BDSM Events
- These notes are for Furries and others who aren’t used to BDSM events, such as a “Dog and Pony Show”.
- Etiquette is slightly different between the social areas and the play spaces. Avoid talking so that BDSM scenes can hear you.
- Dungeon Monitors (DMs) perform a lifeguard function, assisting safety. They are usually marked by an orange bandanna while on duty. Take any questions or issues to them. Obey them.
- Nudity and provocative clothing is perfectly acceptable. It is not an invitation to touch, gawk, or make comments. What do you say to a naked person? The same as you’d say to them if they were dressed.
The play areas are special ritual spaces. Avoid distracting or intruding on any scene: - Keep beyond reaching distance of any scene, including the people, furniture, toys, and other belongings.
- Don’t join in a scene without a very explicit invitation, even if you think you see people joining in freely.
- After a scene, allow at least twenty minutes before requesting to talk with any participants. It takes at least that long for afterglow.
- Be tolerant of all genders, orientations, roles, and play styles. We're a diverse group.
- People have greatly differing reasons for play, and styles of relationship. Don’t assume that anyone is poly, a swinger, or kinky.
- Animal play (pony play, dog play, etc.) is mainly about becoming the animal, in spirit. It is also about the power exchange with the trainer(s) and other animals.
- Experienced bottoms get deep into animal headspace, which is non-verbal. Don’t try to engage them in human conversation. Limit your words to things like “nice doggy” and “pony want an apple slice?”
- Humans interacting with animal play are called owner, trainer, handler, wrangler, etc. as appropriate.
- Animal play generally moves around. Some animals may be on leash, reins, or voice control. Others wander about “at pasture” – that’s normal. Part of animal play is interacting with other animals and the environment.
- Small animals (dogs, puppies, kittens) like a place to romp, such as a mattress, wresting mats, or thick carpet. Often it is vigorous brat play.
- Animals give consent by moving/staying close. They withdraw consent by moving away, growling, barking, stamping, biting or kicking. Words are not required.
- Avoid inadvertently pestering an animal, either by proximity, or by insisting on human conversation. That can ruin the scene.
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I dated a furrie before Gorilla and I hooked up.... things were okay until I stumbled upon his porn collection. Grown women dressed as horses... not my cup of tea. I will admit that there are a few hot furrie pictures out there - not in the porn - but tastefully done. Did I mention that there's a furrie expo in the next few months in the Chicago land area. Could make for a good time.
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Yep, seen it. There's an old MTV special out there somewhere too. I would say to search youtube but you won't be able to un-see the things you'll find while searching "furries" there.
@Amelia
More like "pony want some tranquilizers?" - that's how I roll.
@SA
Awesome story - I bet you wish you had pictures! I'm totally going to the Midwest Furfest - I'll get pictures and video!
@Kelly
Different strokes I guess...
Wow, Dog, and Pony show. This seems like a bad place to bring children, the elderly, PETA, or radical christians, SOUNDS FUN!
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